Don’t just sit there and have an emotional break down, you need to tidy yourself up and look at what has happened. Your love has fallen out of love with you, so what you need to do is to get your love back on track to loving you again. Take a good look in the mirror at yourself, what do you see?
One thing that you need to do is to see in the mirror what your love may see every day, would you still be in love with someone who perhaps looked untidy or was a little bit overweight? Get your hair done and go to the gym if you need to, get a personal trainer if need be and lose some weight. You will lose the weight and feel so much better, even feel stronger emotionally, that you may not even want your love back. You could develop into a whole new person and not need your love back in your life but at least you are trying to improve yourself inside and out.
Tips to get your love to love you again.
1. Look at why your love fell out of love with you, was it an argument? Keep communication open.
2. Go and buy a new sexy outfit and get your hair done, have a facial to relax yourself.
3. Spice up your relationship, be adventuous in the bedroom, wear a sexy outfit.
4. Suggest different fun things to do together.
5. Give them room to breathe, suggest your love spend time with friends.
6. Don’t keep blaming yourself because of your love not loving you any more, it takes two, you could also make yourself sick.
7. Talk to family about your problem, they may have good suggestions to get things back on track.
8. Go for counselling if you feel you both need it.
9. If your love has left the home then try to not communicate with your love yet, just let things calm down a little. Then start talking but not about the separation just keep things casual.
10.Go do some vigorous exercise to get rid of the stress.
All I can say is that time will heal things but try to not worry about it, just keep making yourself stronger, as in going to the gym or long walks and eating healthy.
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